Registry Basics

Once upon a time a registry was not as essential as it is today, in our parents and grandparents generation, couples needed everything from toasters to bedding, but with more young couples today having the basics already, it is more essential than ever to create a solid registry with gift ideas for your guests. Below are a few common registry questions:

“We would like to encourage our guests to give monetary gifts, so why register?”

In some cultures monetary wedding gifts are the norm. However don't forget about showers and guests who may not be comfortable giving a cash envelope. Ensure you have plenty of options for all your guests in a variety of price ranges, it is always better to register for a bit too much than not enough, there is nothing worse than going to buy a gift and not being able to find anything left on a gift registry.

“When should we register and how much should we include?”

You should register as early as possible; some couples even register for a few items right away in time to provide guests ideas for an engagement party. Registering at least six to eight months prior is important to ensure that you have lots of options ready for when shower invitations go out. When visiting the store to set up a registry, call ahead and find out if an appointment is required or recommended to ensure you get the best service. If it is not required ask them when is a good time to visit, usually during the week, as on weekends there may be stock missing and the store will be busier and more difficult to get around. Plus don't forget that many retailers who offer online shopping will allow you to register online, so you can set it all up over a lunch hour or from home and with the best product options available. Ensure to choose items in a variety of price ranges so everyone can find something, plus little items often are bought to compliment a larger item. Be sure to choose a store that all of your guests have easy access too, whether it be a large chain with several locations or a local store that provides online shopping for out of town guests. Also update your registry regularly with items received and new products.

“How should we tell our guests about our registry?”

According to traditional etiquette, registry cards should not be sent with wedding or shower invitations. Although there are many who feel these rules do not apply, keep in mind the preferences of your guests when sending out invitations, would your grandmother be absolutely appalled at seeing a registry card in your wedding invitation, if so don't include it, or at least in her invitation. The best bet is to spread the word through family members and the wedding party. Plus many of the larger retailers have a search by name function.

“We already have everything we need, why should we register?”

Unless you want to get lots of statuettes, picture frames and vases which may or may not suit your personal taste, it is highly recommend that all couples who expect to receive gifts to register. But that doesn't mean you have to register for the typical items. Upgrade your linens and towels, register for honeymoon items or pick a specialty store or hobby that your guests can help you outfit like camping gear or various sports. The rules have changed and your guests want to buy you something you will enjoy.

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